Visting Connecticut Mar 5-8

Yes boys, faggots, bitches, slaves, sub’s, worshipers and anything else inbetwen. I will be making my way down to some time with in the week so if your interested in serving or being served message me.  Do you think you think you got what it takes?

Slave question to Studbear

Sir, would you allow me to pay for your lunch? or even take me to the nearest ATM so that I could use my card, sir?

Well, it is a possibility.  But, I would rather you drop off cash at My building, though.

Leaving your master

Now you have overcome your addiction, it's time to leave your Master.  The best way to do this is politely and respectfully with no abuse, insults or negativity.  Tell him you are wanting to focus on your career, or something like that.  Your Master will understand, unless he's some kind of evil fucken psycho asshole lol.

Can money buy happiness?

Of course, as long as you are a financial slave, you will always be happy giving it to Studbear Financial Domination Corporation, will put your money in good use.

Spanking…Seriously???

So he has been thinking about spanking a lot lately, egh?  Well I could sort that out. He told he never would have thought he'd like being spanked. Before Master Studbear he thought of it as degrading and humiliating. But that was before Master Studbear.

He still don’t like being spanked. But he craves it. He crave the release he feels. He craves the feeling of forgiveness for whatever transgressions that have occurred. he crave the release of guilt for faults (real or imagined) spanking gives me. He crave the closeness he feel with Master Studbear when I spank him.Studbear spanks. He cries. I sooth. He feels peace.

The (I don’t want to say intelligent, because above all I’m not stupid) but the other part of his brain, isn’t sure how to feel or what to think about this. It keeps telling him he's a grown man and he shouldn’t put up with, much less want, to be spanked. He thinks he has decided to tell that part.   He doesn’t know anything!

He will continue to offer his backside to Master Studbear to spank at will. Hopefully sooner rather than later.

Shopping spree

Yes I did it again, I took a slave's cash from his wallet, he had $200.00 and went shopping.   I took off his clothes butt naked and handcuffed him to my metal headboard of my bed.   I told him to behave while I am gone.  I even took his car for traveling to save gasoline for my vehicle.  I ended up getting myself a pair of workout gloves and a workout bench.  When I got home, he was asleep.  He looked ever so peacefully on his side.  I walked over to him and gave him one big spank and told him to wake up and have work for him, which was assembling the bench.  He was about to put his clothes on but I told him to keep them off.

He's actually assembling the bench right now as I am typing this.

Be My Valentine....You fucken wish

Well you all know that Feb 14th is the day of "LOVE".   Well I say you’re supposed to LOVE ME 365 days a year – not just on this FUCKING DAY!!!! Come on, are you serious one day HELL NO!!!! I say that on this day, Valentine’s Day, you’re supposed to pull out all the gifts, cologne, MONEY, and whatever comes to mind.  I will also take flowers.  So if you’re not pulling out all the stops then it’s time to do a reality check and ask yourself how much do you love me.

Valentine's Day Gift

I had a great gift that came through my PO Box from one of my slaves.  It was a really nice gift and thoughtful of him to do that for me.  Thank you!

Seeking past of the sex

Many seems to be attracted to the lifestyle initially because of the sexual aspect. Some submissives crave being taken and used sexually. Simultaneously, many Masters love the idea of having one at His complete disposal. To have someone obey His every sexual whim is something that is appealing to a Master. However, if there is anyone who is involved in this for any length of time will and should know know there is a great deal more to the lifestyle than that.

I meet many who claim to have the desire of being a 24/7 slave. The tendency is for them to focus on the sexual aspect. They love the idea of being "taken" at any time while used as a complete pleasure toy. Serving their Master for His pleasure is their goal. However, many fail to visualize past the sex part.

What does being a 24/7 entail? Sexual submission is certainly part of it. However, there are many more aspects which one should consider. While many will talk about pleasure versus domestic slaves, in reality, they tend to be one in the same. Some will take sex slaves periodically. Yet, this is usually not under the 24/7 category. A slave is used however a Master chooses. There are times where He seeks pleasure while wanting His domestic affairs attended to.

When one is looking at the 24/7 lifestyle, one must consider what it is like to be a domestic slave. A slave's time is spent more on satisfying her Master in that area than is spent in sexual activities. Are you one who desires to spend your evenings after work cooking, cleaning, and other tedious tasks. Those with the "homemaking" mentality will not have a problem with this. Some who have a more wild spirit might resist this change.

Another thing to consider is doing without your Master's attention. Many fail to understand that once one submits, he is without any rights. Ponder how big a statement that is. If a Master elects to focus His attention on other areas of His life, that is how it will be. Can you accept waiting at home for Him while He is out? Are you one who cannot live without the constant contact of your Master? This might be a real possibility.

I write this without the intention of trying to dissuade anyone from entering the M/s world. Yet I feel it necessary that one goes into this with a full awareness of what life could be like. The polyanna attitude will only work for so long. Ensuring that a M/s relationship survives requires effort, work, and realistic expectations. Knowing oneself while understand how you will react in certain situations helps to prepare one for what occurs.